FAQs

Our events are for adults (18+ or 21+, depending on the venue) who are interested in age play, kink, or simply looking for a welcoming and inclusive space to explore.

Not at all! While we are proudly LGBTQIA+ owned and operated, our events are open to everyone who respects and supports the kink and fetish communities. We operate at venues that welcome everyone – regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity. We create inclusive, welcoming spaces, where all attendees can feel safe, accepted, and free to express themselves.

No, our events do not have a required dress code! You're welcome to wear whatever makes you feel comfortable and confident. Whether that's casual attire, kink-friendly gear, or themed outfits, we encourage self-expression. However, basic requirements like shoes or body coverage may be required for certain events. Check individual event details for specific guidelines.

We encourage guests to leave large bags and oversized jackets at home whenever possible. Space is often limited, and bringing only what you need will help keep the event area accessible and enjoyable for everyone.

Bag Checks & Security
All bags, regardless of size, are subject to search by DFP and/or venue staff to maintain a safe and secure environment. Refusal to comply with bag checks may result in denied entry.

Storage & Venue Policies
Suitcases and excessively large bags may be turned away depending on the venue’s coat/bag check capacity. If storage is available, it will be offered on a first-come, first-served basis.

For events held at Jackhammer, there is a $2 fee per item for bag, coat, and/or clothes check bins. Coat check is located upstairs, while clothing check is available in The Hole (basement bar). Please plan accordingly.

Check individual event details for specific venue policies, and pack light to make your experience as smooth as possible!

Yes! Diaper Up is currently the only DFP event that offers a diaper changing area.  We provide a dedicated changing area in The Hole (basement) bar that has a massage table and a privacy screen to ensure attendees have a comfortable and accommodating experience.  Diapers in sizes XS-2XL are provided by our sponsors NorthShore ABDL and Tykables. We also supply wipes and baby powder.

*Please, no messy diapers.

We have a strict zero-tolerance policy for harassment, unwanted touch, or any form of non-consensual behavior. Consent is the foundation of our events, and all interactions—whether verbal, physical, or otherwise—must be mutual, enthusiastic, and respected at all times.

Our events operate under a "No means no" and "Only yes means yes" approach, meaning consent must be clearly given, and hesitation or silence is not an invitation for further engagement. If at any point someone withdraws consent, their decision must be immediately respected.

Anyone who violates these policies will be removed from the event without a refund, and repeat offenses may result in a permanent ban from future events. Our goal is to create a space where everyone feels safe, respected, and free to enjoy themselves without fear of judgment or harm.

Our staff will be wearing yellow branded lanyards with name badges. Please report issues to the bar staff if you cannot locate DFP staff.

To report a consent and safety violation please complete our Incident Report Form

No, we do not allow outside sippy cups at Diaper Up. However, we provide sippy cups for all ordered drinks to ensure a fun and consistent experience for everyone. See your bartender and ask for a reusable sippy cup—please do not throw them away! Our cups are cleaned and sanitized for safety, so you can sip and enjoy worry-free!